Top 5 Things Man Should Never Do
There are a lot of toxic people in this world over the past
year or so. I feel like we've seen that intensified to a level that I've never
seen before.
So the goal of this blog is to push you forward in the right
path, or better, to steer you away from the wrong path. I want you to believe
in yourself. I want you to be respected. I want you to succeed. But to do that,
I need to stay away from these ten things.
Ten things that a man should never, ever do.
Now, let's get into this video. So the first tip for today
is to never stay in a toxic relationship. Let me say this again.
1. Never stay in a toxic relationship.
Most guys don't like to admit this, right?
Because when you're in a toxic relationship, you don't think
of it as toxic, because if you thought of it as toxic, you would leave. So you
come up with excuses as to why you should stay in this relationship. Well, you
know, there's good times once a week, once a month. We have a good time when we
go out and we're in public, that's not good enough. You know, good enough in a
relationship is not good enough, man.
You want great. You want amazing. You want positive. You
want someone that's going to uplift. Toxic relationships have a way of messing
you up, wrecking your personality, your career.
I mean, who knows, right? It can lead to some really bad
things. So I'm here to tell you guys that if you find yourself in a
relationship that you are just not happy in, do yourself a favor. Just let it
go. It'll be okay in the end, let it go.
Find something new, or just be by yourself. That is
completely fine. The one thing you cannot do, I stay in a toxic relationship.
2. following the crowd
So remember that next in today's list, something else that
you should not be doing is following the crowd, right? Just going with the
flow, which is okay sometimes.
But to a degree, most of the time, we're okay with doing
whatever else everyone is doing, because it's easier and it's more comfortable,
right? It's easy. And it does take more work to go out of your way to do your
own thing. But I'll tell you, that is so, so much better in today's world. You
can be anything you want to be.
You can be whoever you want to be. And it is not okay for
you to just want to blend in for you to just want to be invisible. Blend in
with the crowd. Follow the crowd. That's not good enough, man.
Be yourself. Find your own personality. Find your own style,
whatever it is. But be yourself. And the cool thing is that there are so many
ways to be your own person that comes from your own fashion sense, right?
Change up your hair style from your hairstyle to your beard.
That comes from your hobbies. Anything different that you might want to try.
You don't have to do the same exact thing that your neighbor is doing or your
brothers your sisters are doing. Do your own thing.
If they're playing guitar. Who cares? Go be a skydiver. It
doesn't matter. The best advice I can give you is to just try new things until
you find something that you absolutely love and then create a passion for
yourself and follow through.
The next thing that not only men, but also women should not
be doing ever is
3. having negative thoughts about themselves.
These negative thoughts that you have about yourself, right?
Because the thing is, they always say that your biggest cheerleader is yourself
and the same way that your biggest critic is yourself. So you have a really
deep impact. Your thoughts have a deep impact on the kind of person that you
are.
So if you always have these negative thoughts about
yourself, it pulls you down. It breaks your confidence. It makes you the worst
version of yourself. Because if you do anything that is wrong and then you beat
yourself up over it, it's over, man. It is absolutely over.
You're not gonna be able to get over that hurdle. So what
you have to do is make a conscious effort to make yourself feel better. To
think positive thoughts about yourself. Right? To let go of this limiting
mindset that you get, sometimes that I get, sometimes all of us do.
But I am very good at understanding that I'm doing that. And
just be like, Yo, Alex, come on, dude. Stop. Stop. You got this.
The next thing that a man should never, ever do is
4. make fun of another man's source of income, no matter what it is, no
matter how much it is, that is off-limits.
What people do to make their money, what people do with
their money, unless your family, it's not up to you, man.
Let them do whatever it is.
You can give them advice, but never make fun. Never ridicule
someone for what they're doing. I always mentioned that I think it's really
important to talk about finances and being open and saying the word money.
Because if you don't, you don't learn about it. You have to learn about
finances.
You have to learn about money. But if there's anything that
is kind of like out of reach, it's making fun of somebody's money or job or
income. That is a low blow. That is actually pretty rude. Or stay away from
that.
That is not something that a man should ever, ever do. Now,
still on this issue kind of of restraint is a
5. guy should never, ever display anger or act rudely towards anyone.
You know, I get it. We're guys. And sometimes you got this
tosser on going and you want to fight or whatever you want to raise your voice.
But even no matter how annoying this person is, don't let
them get under your skin. Don't let them get on your nerves. They're going to
frustrate you and absolutely ruin your day if you let that happen. Right? But
the good thing is, you can always control your emotions.
Whatever this person's saying can literally just be blocked
by a barrier that out in front of you. You can go in this year, out the other.
You turn around, go back home and live your beautiful life. And that is it. Or
you can let it affect you.
And all of a sudden your day is completely ruined. So my
advice is the first option, right in this ear. Out the other Pisa. Dude, you're
annoying. You're a Dick.
I don't wanna deal with it. So that is the best response.
That is amazing. Props to you. If you can do that right, that is a win.
So practice restraint and don't display your anger, even if
you are kind of on the same vein here. If you get angry for whatever reason and
you want to get physical, do not get into fights. I have seen so many of my
friends, like back in high school, get into fights and they break their nose
and teeth, and then they get the tension or suspension from school where they
get into actual legal trouble. Or what? Because this guy said this about you.
Because this guy called you a name because this guy said
something. It's just not worth it.
